Like most parents, you enter into the realm of
parenthood with the expectation that everything will be perfect. However, when
you are a nurse, sometimes too much knowledge can put a damper on those dreams.
My first pregnancy was amazing!!! Plenty of energy, no morning sickness, blood
pressure stayed where it should. I
couldn’t ask for more. But as a nurse, I
would have the worst case scenarios running through my head. At the time, my husband and I lived on an
acreage about 15 minutes away from the hospital. Throughout that time, my husband was also
travelling all over the province with his work.
The scenario that ran through my head throughout my pregnancy was that I
was going to have a cord prolapse. Now
this is something that rarely happens, and I have never actually seen one in my
career, but my imagination was quite OK with filling in the details.
Despite my fears, my pregnancy advanced with no
concerns. I went off work at 36 weeks, took that time to finish off a course I
was working on, and prepare our home for our new addition. However, at 37
weeks, my doctor had concerns that my baby’s head hadn’t “dropped” yet. So off to the hospital for an ultrasound to
make sure baby wasn’t in a breech position. Everything looked great on the
ultrasound so off I went to continue my “nesting”. At 39 weeks, baby still
hadn’t dropped. At that point, my doctor told me that he wouldn’t allow me to
go past my due date, because if my membranes ruptured with baby’s head still
high, I was at risk for a cord prolapse!!! There it was, my fears becoming a
potential reality.
So the day before my due date, I was admitted to the
hospital for an induction. Despite my
walking, and bouncing on the yoga ball, I didn’t have much more than a few mild
tightenings. So we tried round 2, with
basically the same effect. The wonderful
thing delivering in the place that you work is that you KNOW that everyone has
your best interests at heart. After the
2nd induction didn’t work, my doctor suggested that we opt for a
cesarean section. I was torn between not
wanting to give up too easily, and wanting to make the best decision for myself
and my unborn child. Ultimately, I decided, with the help of some wise
coworkers, that trying another induction likely wouldn’t put me into active labour,
and I would end up being more worn out by the time baby did come. (Let me tell you, it was no easy decision, as
I had my mom on the other side telling me how much doctors like to intervene
too quickly).
Ultimately, the c-section was the best decision. Our
baby girl was born that evening, happy and healthy. She nursed like a trooper
and we never looked back. The reason she
never dropped???? She was coming out
face first (not a position which any of you would ever want to contemplate
delivering a baby). So am I sad that I
had to have a c-section? Not
really. As I’ve shared with many of my
patients since then that are facing an unplanned c-section, “Yes I had to have
a c-section, but I don’t pee myself when I exercise”.
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